“Many of us either run in an area where we have been totally closed down or share way too much,” says Cook. “Find a medium that is happy you will be ready to link in a secure and open way that lets you become familiar with some body. It is possible to nevertheless protect your heart without appearing defensive and guarded. If they are at a place in their lives where they are willing to be thoughtfully vulnerable as well if you notice that your partner has a wall up as well, carefully consider. (more…)