The possible lack of information within the PUA Community about taking women on real first times (not as dating and relationships) is just a bit deceptive. The community and pick up artist forums offers, one tends to think that Same Night Sex is the majority of outcomes from cold-approach pickup by the small amount of instruction and education. Honestly, it’s maybe not.
I’m sure we’ll maintain a little bit of warm water using the ‘Same Night Lay’ companies around, but let me explain.
A pickup that is cold-approach a tumultuous art that may end up in a few results. A same Night Lay, or even the infamous double cold approach threesome made infamous by Johnny Wolf! Frankly, the possibilities are fairly numerous from a cold-approach, you can get a number, you can get a makeout, you can get a makeout and a number.
Nevertheless, presuming you’re an ordinary man rather than an obsessive compulsive PUA Community man with a warped perception of truth, then your most typical (and emotionally healthier) result is a very first date.
You, it’s your job to make the first move towards a first date both memorable, interesting and romantic since you and a lady have exchanged information at the club (or bar, or bookstore, or cafe) and she’s now chomping at the bit to see. You’ve taken an ABCs Bootcamp or attended and pre-ordered Gareth Jones’ iGame: From Text To Intercourse program, that you can set one up yourself so you already know how to get a girl’s number and get a date lined up (right? ), so we’re going to skip that part and get right to discussing the rules and guidelines that make a date good so. (more…)